Your Marriage Does Not Have to Fail......Making Your Marriage Last

In a world where marriage is declining and divorce and shacking up is increasing and acceptable, smh, it would seem that the Godly family structure is losing. Marriage does not have to fail and I believe it will not. We as Christian believers are to be examples of godly relationships and marriages. Marriage between a man and a woman is God ordained therefore when entered into the way God desires we won't fail, simply because we did it His way. This is a brief video to encourage people considering marriage, about to be married and for those who are already married....... Be encouraged

The Heart of Praise and Worship

Lord let your Glory fall like rain. Saturate us like never before. Let your Glory be revealed on the Earth through your vessels.

I’ve had such a struggle writing this blog. It was originally longer and I was going to give my testimony of how God called me at a young age to sing in the structure that we call Praise and Worship. Then give a tired list of what not to do and what to do. But instead I have decided to just get straight to the point and say what needs to be said in a simply way. Anyone who knows me knows it is a part of my calling that I do not take lightly and I always want to go deeper. I have gone deeper and I will go deeper and you can too.

Our main focus as leaders is to simply turn the focus of the people of God towards the throne room of heaven. Our praise and worship should be directly to Him and Him alone. When we minister to Him, we will minister to the people and they will want to praise and worship God; not so much because we are singing a good song but because the atmosphere has shifted and His presence has becomes tangible. I will tell you not everyone is aware of His presence and they may simply be looking for entertainment from the team. Do not be discouraged; do what you know God has called and given you to do. One day they may see with spiritual eyes.

There are some individuals who solely use the platform of a praise and worship leader as means to display their talent. We thank God for the talent but praise and worship is not the place to show off for people. It’s sickening and anyone with Holy Spirit discernment can smell you from a mile away. Singers and musicians should be able to sing and play their instruments skillfully but it has to do with so much more than a skillful sound when played to the Lord. I do believe all singers and musicians should invest in their gift and receive some sort of training. God anoints and uses His vessels who have committed their talents and gifts to Him. So again I say it is not simply a place to display talent but a call. Truthfully, we are all called to bless the Lord so don’t think you need to be on stage. Your worship is just as important during the service even if you can’t sing. Sing from your chair like you are in the Throne room…lol….

There is a difference between those who are anointed and those who are just talented. Trust me, talent fails, but when God is involved He gets the glory and does things that we can only imagine in praise and worship……..Then you laugh and you’re like thanks for the reminder God that you didn’t call me for my talent alone and that sometimes we forget to rely on You even when we want to bless You………. Your sound becomes distinct from all others and oh how God loves that sound. It is hard to explain but I know what it is. It is God's presence in the vessel Spirit manifested upon those who are filled with the Holy Spirit. God gives us what we have so we can give it back to Him and He anoints and blesses what we are.

The anointing is not from individuals but from God. This is something that He does. It comes from being with Him in His presence; spending time in his word. “Worship Leaders, your spiritual preparation is your most important preparation. Don’t neglect it” .Yes true He is always present, but being in His presence during worship and prayer that requires you to stop all that you are doing is different. It is intimate. It’s almost as time stops. To the one who has not been in the presence of God this may sound bizarre or mystical, but it’s not. God actually wants to have fellowship with us. It is why He made us. This fellowship is obtainable to all who have given their lives to Jesus. We can have as much of God as we want. And there is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much to be given to us.

I feel like God really loves music. All they do in heaven is praise God day and night and day and night. It’s all they do!!! They have harps and the harp is not an easy instrument lol…. But seriously God is to be exalted above all else. I know as praise and worship leaders we are to follow the scene of heaven. Obviously because we are human we cannot worship day and night. But our lifestyles should speak of His greatness and when we are ministering in worship; our adoration should be to Him. Sing to Him a new song! Sing spontaneously! Sometimes the song you didn’t plan or write are the best ones. God loves to hear us and we should love singing and playing before Him!

A long time ago…. Ok like 5yrs ago I use to be concerned with people not praising and worshipping God in the service. I knew I didn’t want to be one of those leaders who sang the fake Hallelujah to stir the atmosphere- lol ya’ll know the one LOL. But I wanted to create an atmosphere for God to move. I did not understand what I prayed for but it was just burning in me that God always wants to do more. I was instructed to just bless God and to forget about the people. This is not to say that you ignore your audience’s needs because I know God will give you words to sing for times and moments which cause you to effectively minster. The people have to have a heart for God also. Sometimes the people in our pews really just don’t know what to do or have so many issues that their flesh blinds them of what is happening. Distractions can also happen if your team is not on the same spiritual page or has no desire to go deeper. There has to be unity with your team. In the past I would be asked why do you only let certain people and musicians sing and play with you. My response was because there is unity in the Spirit with us, and because they always come prepared to minister to God. And if they were out of place they were removed. I never had to kick anyone off a team but they were removed. God will not let anyone steal His Glory. He will not share it but He will pour it out on humble vessels. Ugh He’s so crazy good.

I was about 13 when the anointing of God manifested in my life through singing and I was given this verse and it changed the way I sang before Him. Even though I did not remember it until I was about  15 or 16 nor sought for it until that time

11When the priests came forth from the holy place (for all the priests who were present had sanctified themselves, without regard to divisions),

12 and all the Levitical singers, Asaph, Heman, Jeduthun, and their sons and kinsmen, clothed in fine linen, with cymbals, harps and lyres, standing east of the altar, and with them one hundred and twenty priests blowing trumpets

13 in unison when the trumpeters and the singers were to make themselves heard with one voice to praise and to glorify the Lord, and when they lifted up their voice accompanied by trumpets and cymbals and instruments of music, and when they praised the Lord saying, “He indeed is good for His lovingkindness is everlasting,” then the house, the house of the Lord, was filled with a cloud,

14 so that the priests could not stand to minister because of the cloud, for the glory of the Lord filled the house of God. 2 Chronicles 5:11-14

Our purpose as praise and worship leaders is for the Glory of God to fill our places of worship so that lives can be changed, people be saved from their sin, signs, wonders and whatever else God wants to do. Our praise and our worship is powerful not because we are good at it but because He is good and we get to declare His goodness. Every time we open our mouth and every time we lay a hand on an instrument it should be so that His Glory, Jesus, will be revealed in us so that others can encounter God like never before. This is not to say that every time God manifest Himself He will show up the same way. Don’t be disappointed if the whole congregation isn’t slain every Sunday or whenever you are leading praise and worship. We are there to set the atmosphere, period. How God wants to show up is not up to us but we should minister with the expectation that He is going to do something great, and He will. Setting the atmosphere is not only for the people who are on stage, have the mic or whatever; this call is for everyone. While the singers are singing I believe the people should be praying. The singers should even be praying. There is nothing like a song sang prayerful or with understanding.

I can go on and on give you a bunch of scriptures and share a whole lot of experiences but I will stop lol…………. Just know Praise and worship is not about you- it’s about our great and mighty God. Our worship should be on earth as it is in heaven. Leading Praise and Worship is a call not a talent or a good idea. We bless God for your structure, structure is good but allow God to wreck your program. There must be unity….. And ultimately GOD WANTS TO POUR HIMSELF OUT ON US AND TAKE US DEEPER.

This is one of my favorite worship songs from 2 Chronicles 5:11-14

Just another song I love that reminds us of our purpose!

Discernment is God’s call to intercession, never to faultfinding

“Discernment is God’s call to intercession, never to faultfinding”.-Corrie Ten Boom.  

This quote struck a chord in my heart this afternoon so I had to write. I’m not even finished the blog I was supposed to be writing lol. This is a lil piece on discernments proper use. The very condensed version lol.

God’s plan for gifts was not for us to use them for our selfish benefits. His plan is that we as a body use our gifts for the Glory of His name, the building of His Church, and the destruction of the forces of evil.  After one receives the Baptism of the Holy Spirit the working of the gifts from the Holy Spirit should follow. I believe sometimes even before you receive the Baptism of the Holy Spirit some of your gifts are at work just not on a complete level. This is not say that you do not need the Baptism of the Holy Spirit. You need the Baptism of the Holy Spirit to operate fully. I mean why wouldn't you want His spirit poured our on you and in you. Why limit what God has for you. If you don’t have the Baptism of Spirit seek God He will give Him freely. My hope is that those who are reading have already been baptized by the Holy Spirit. My purpose for writing is to encourage you as a Spirit filled believer to use your gifts properly; especially discernment/prophecy. 

In 1Corinthians 12:8-10 Paul lays out what some of the gifts of the Spirit are

8 For to one is given the word of wisdom through the Spirit, and to another the word of knowledge according to the same Spirit; 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, and to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, 10 and to another the effecting of miracles, and to another prophecy, and to another the distinguishing of spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, and to another the interpretation of tongues.Paul reminds us the Gifts of the Spirit are all from the same Holy Spirit and if they are from the same spirit they should work in the same Spirit and not against each other. With the gift of Discernment (distinguishing of spirits)/Prophecy you have to be careful. I put the two together because you will find they work together. Discernment is the ability to be able to perceive or see of what spirit a person or thing is acting under; is it genuine or of false pretense, of God or not of God. 1Thesssalonians 5:21 21But examine everything (use judgment) carefully; hold fast to that which is good. Prophecy is not just telling the future but being able to proclaim the Word of God from His written word or from His mouth. You will not always hear an audible voice. He will just use your voice to speak. Both of these gifts go together.

There are pitfalls with these two gifts because of the flesh. People will use their gift to find fault, expose an individual, or to glorify themselves. The person may feel the urge to feel right. When God gives revelation concerning a matter it is not so one can expose and have the upper hand; even though, sometimes it is for public exposure. There is a difference between making judgments and condemning. When God gives a word concerning a person’s spirit, disposition, or whatever one should not automatically jump up and proclaim it or gossip about it with others. God gives insight to strengthen not to tear down. You must ask Him what to do with what has been given. He does not always want you to confront an issue by going to the person and telling them how bad they are doing or how blessed they are. Most of the time all He wants you to do is pray. And through prayer He will direct you and guide you through the matter if necessary. Or maybe He wants you to confront the person but beware of how to approach them; But he who is spiritual appraises all things…1 Corinthians 2:15. Consulting someone who is of a mature faith is extremely helpful. God definitely uses more than one person, at the same time or on different occasions, to speak His truth.

 I have seen instances where God had given a person insight and their first instinct was to run and tell the person. The person was not ready to receive the Word from God and pretty much told the word barer to shove it. When dealing with people you have to pray about the matter. Sometimes God answers on the spot and other times He wants to prepare their heart as He prepares your heart to trust Him to give you the words to say. Other times the person will not receive it just because of the issues in their hearts. It could also be these people are not spiritually mature so they will not receive you and who you are. “I ask that when I am present I need not be bold with the confidence with which I propose to be courageous against some, who regard us as if we walked according to the flesh.”- 2Cornithians 10:2. You do not have to prove anything to anyone. If they do not receive what the Lord is saying pray and continue in ministry as instructed.

Praying that God removes a person should only be done if there is an actual hindrance and that person won’t let go of it. And if they are a hindrance to ministry don’t worry about it God will remove them. You should never feel the need to move a person when God reveals something to you; especially if they are like your pastor or boss lol. This has to be discerned properly, it is why prayer is soooooo important. In extreme cases there are issues that have to be dealt with immediately, but the Holy Spirit will let you know what to do in those cases and how to act upon it immediately. God will also put a person in your life to see how you will react and to weed out any issues you may have. He wants you to pray for that person and not against. And like I said He will remove the hindrance one way or another; just make sure you are not the hindrance. God does not need our help He chooses to use us for His glory.

If a person has a mature understanding of their gift it hurts to see others not receive what God has given you to bless and help them. Prayer will make you able to withstand the hurt and not dwell on the situation and still pray for the people. That is why I cannot understand why a prophet would rejoice in the failures of brothers and sisters in Christ. It’s like really, you’re happy that you were right about that person’s secret drug habit and happy you kicked this person out of the ministry (this is hypothetical lol) what did that accomplish? How is the Kingdom God built up? Our gifts should always be used for God's glory and the building of His Kingdom.

Having the gift of discernment/prophecy can also be a weakness, especially in relationships. Be prayerful when engaging in a relationship with opposite sex (really all people) so that you can guard your heart. What you see for their future may not be where they are at and they could probably do more damage to you. Yes look at what they will be, but also where they now spiritually. Are they giving themselves to God or are they just doing whatever. I just thought I throw that in there. You do not want to be taken advantage of for your compassion and concern.

Pray pray pray pray read read read pray fast fast fast pray and read. I cannot say it enough. With any gifting you must cultivate it through prayer fasting and reading first. In these last days it is important God’s people have spiritual discernment. Satan is a copycat and is good at it because he always makes a mockery of the things and people of God. And I hate him and what he does with a passion. The Church has to be aware of his devices and be able to discern his presence. I’ll give you a clue he is usually in the Church services lol. I have seen to many times where the people of God thought it was the Spirit of God and it was some other unclean spirit e.g. workings of the flesh or demons. It was painful to watch the people of God entertain it, “worship” with it or just didn’t care. In those situations all you can do is pray and cast it out which is what we should be doing any way. We need discernment not so we can be special but so we can fight this spiritual war. Our war is not with people, especially not the people of God. Our war is with the forces of Satan and his demons. During these last days we are going to see many things attempt to come against the people of God. We have to pray and be focused so that we will not be deceived. Keep the altars of prayer open in your life. Be diligent be sober minded. Intercede when God gives you insight. Prayer is a weapon against hell and the things that oppose God. If Satan can keep you from praying than he has won victory over you. And you let him. Satan wants us to gossip and tear down our bothers and sisters. Repent. Satan hates us and we should hate him. So let us counteract the powers of hell by praying always 1Thes 5:17. Prayer, Unity,Holy Ghost power, spiritual insight.

3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, 4 for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5 We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, 6 and we are ready to punish all disobedience, whenever your obedience is complete. 
2Corinthians 10:3-6

Ok I am done…… sort of….. but I’ll stop here

The Promises of God: You're Future is Still Really Bright

               
Sometimes it’s easier to speak life, strength, and blessing over someone. In the midst of praying and ministering to others you may sometimes forget that God has promised you something in your life. You may have not stopped praying, going to church, or singing God’s praises, but instead you find yourself not preparing for the future and worrying. Life situations will take place and you may question where God is. You may think to yourself that all he has promised cannot be for you, not now. And because of the “now” situations you cannot see how the promises will be fulfilled. You may be allowing yourself to believe your future would somehow be altered because you have finally realized how flawed you are or how inadequate you may feel.

                "I know that You can do all things, and that no purpose of Yours can be thwarted” Job 42:2 (in context 42:1-5). When Job said these words he realized that God’s purpose is supreme and He always has the best plan and it goes far beyond what we could imagine. Even through suffering failures and heartbreak God has not changed His mind nor forgotten us. It is why He sends men and women to speak into our lives and remind us of what He has promised. God is the best at reminders we have His word and direct access and like I said he sends people right when we think we’re crazy and He cannot possible do “it”. Isaiah 55:11 tells us God’s word will accomplish what He said it would. We can trust God to fulfill every promise in our lives. He uses His word to remind us to hold on and stay focused. We just need to remind ourselves daily what those promises are for our lives. Each one of us has a purpose that will be fulfilled.

Waiting can be the hardest thing to do. During the waiting period we must continue (or start) to immerse ourselves with the things of God; Pray, seek His face, and His presence. We must read the Word, follow scripture, and continue to minister to the Church and the unsaved. For some of us that may also mean leaving places or friends. Sometimes people and places can slow our progress and make us lose sight of God. Our relationships are important and where we spend our time does affect us. Be careful who you share your visions and dreams with and who you take along with you. Surround yourself with Godly people. People are always tied to our destiny.

                God is always with His people don’t lose sight of your dreams and visions that God has given you and Hold onto to His promises.

Forsaking All to Find Myself in Him originally written 8/13/06 unedited

Forsaking all I Trust Him

‘’What is Keeping you from Doing Gods Work?’‘

‘’Finding your Place and Purpose in God’‘

8/13/06

Luke 5:4-11

To some individuals the word forsake in the bible can be scary. Personally for me

I had a hard time defining it. I felt it meant that I would have to stop living like a normal person and be by myself all the time. At first I thought that God would take away my desires that I believe he has given me. So what I would do is pray constantly for him not do away with them. One day I heard a pastor say that prayer is not to remind God of you needs and desires. God already knows our desires Psalm 37:4 delight thyself in the lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. So if we obey Gods word and his mandates he will give us what we desire. I am now learning that when you take care of Gods work he will give you favor and make ways that you could not even imagine. The problem is we don’t delight ourselves in God nor are we in his will. When we begin to seek his kingdom and his righteousness, we will come to find that all we need is in the kingdom!!! Matthew 6:33. In order for us to understand what our purpose for this time is we must seek God in everything that we do from our waking up till our lying down.

How do you know what you purpose for life is unless you seek God and come into fellowship with him??? At times we can act like (even if we know it or not) God doesn't really know what we’re supposed to be doing??? That is where have to trust God Psalm139:13-17 The psalmist David begins to talk about how God formed him in his mother’s womb. He tells us he was not hidden from God and that Gods thoughts are precious towards us.

 But what about when you find your purpose, or at least a piece?? What do you do, what do you say? What do you do when you find yourself being separated from individuals, because they are not in tuned to what God is doing?? What about when you try to tell love ones and close intimate friends what God needs you to do??What do you do when the advice they give is conflicting to his word??? What about when you want to be separated from foolish youthful experiences?? Well you move on... It’s not easy all the time, but when you want what God has for you drop people and things.(It’s a part of FORSAKING) Many people will come against you especially when you know who you are, TRULY KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHO’S YOU ARE. And if you are young they will tear you up with advice. But thank God for wise consul from those who are not just old but actually seasoned in Christ. And thank God for Jesus the ULTIMATE LOVER AND FRIEND!!!

Just a reminder when you are called out (not talking about just preaching but being saved) you should change who you are around. Meaning you won’t allow those so called saved people; you know the ones who say they’re saved but there’s no change, no fruit, no power. They have no real relationship with the Father, because they’re not reading His word and ALLOWING IT TO CHANGE THEM!!!!! You should not allow them to help terminate your future.                                           

In the book of Jeremiah chapter 1 verses 5-10, again the Lord God tells someone else. ‘’ Before I formed you I knew you”, he goes on and tells young Jeremiah, before you were born I sanctified and ordained you to be a prophet to the nations. You know what, Jeremiah tried used his age as a way of to get out of what God had called him to do. God was like don’t say that, for you shall go to all to whom I send you And whatever I command you, you shall speak. God told him don’t be afraid of their faces. God said that he will put his words in our Mouth, just to let you know we are still in Jeremiah 1. He will set us over nations and kingdoms to break and rebuild. You know some people’s faces can scare you but don’t fear them(2Tim 1:7)God has no given us a spirit of fear. 

Jeremiah wasn't the only one who was called in their youth.(Youth ranged from birth until 40yrs of age.) In the book of 1 Timothy 4:12-16 Paul encourages Timothy (age 30-40) and tells him not to let anyone despise him because of his youth, but to be an example to the believers in word, conduct, love, spirit, faith, and purity. Paul also told him to give attention to reading and exhortation and doctrine. He basically wanted Timothy to stay in the word and not get caught up in other things but to be an example. Many times as youth we give ourselves to foolishness. Rather it be for attention or just curiosity. As believer we must give our attention to the things of God and stay out of the face of evil things. We must stay in the word of God it is the only possible way to know who he truly is!!